Amaphutha Okubheja Ajwayelekile Abadlali BaseNingizimu Afrika Okufanele Bawaqaphele
Uma kuziwa ekudlaleni ku-inthanethi kunamaphutha amaningi ajwayelekile okubheja abadlali abazoba yizisulu nawo. Manje njengabadlali abasha kungenzeka singawaqapheli lawa maphutha ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngakho-ke ukuze sisize umphakathi wethu wabashayi bemidlalo abashisekayo, sihlonze amanye amaphutha ajwayelekile okubheja, futhi siwaveze obala ukuze uhlome ngokugcwele futhi uqaphele ngaphambi kokuthi kushaye isikhathi.
1. Ukuba Nokulindela Okungenangqondo
Kunabantu abaningi abaqala uhambo lwabo lokubheja kwezemidlalo belindele okungenangqondo komphumela. Sonke sizibona singochwepheshe uma kuziwa kwezemidlalo esiyaziyo nesiyithandayo, nokho lokho akusho ukuthi sinegunya phezu kwemiphumela yemicimbi yezemidlalo eyahlukene, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sazi kangakanani.
Iqiniso liwukuthi noma yini ingenzeka emdlalweni, futhi ngenxa yalokhu umphumela awuqinisekisiwe ngokugcwele. Lawula lokho okulindele ngokwazi ukuthi kuzoba nezikhathi lapho ungase ulahlekelwe yibheji yakho, lokhu akunakugwenywa
2. Ukuzisakaza Kancane
Isibaluli esibalulekile, kodwa esivame ukunganakwa, lapho ukubheja kwezemidlalo kuwukuba nesineke sokulinda amathuba afanele okwehlisa imali. Ngeshwa, ukubekezela akuyona into esingayihlobanisa eduze kakhulu nokubheja okuvamile: ikakhulukazi abasaqalayo. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu, abaqalayo abaningi babeka ama-wager amaningi kakhulu. Isibonelo, abantu abaningi babheja ezinhlobonhlobo zezemidlalo ezahlukene. Abanye bagxila emdlalweni owodwa nje, kodwa babheja cishe kuwo wonke umcimbi owodwa ohlobene nalowo mdlalo. Azikho kulezi zindlela ezilungile.
Indlela engcono kakhulu ukukhetha. Kunokubheja emidlalweni eminingi eyahlukene, zama ukugxila kowodwa noma emibili. Kunokuba ubeke ama-wager kuwo wonke umdlalo noma umcimbi, zama ukubheka amathuba lapho ungakwazi khona ukwenza izinqumo ezinhle mayelana nalokho okungenzeka.
3. Ukukhetha Izincwadi Zezemidlalo Ezingekho Emthethweni
Ngaphandle kokungabaza, indlela elula yokubeka ama-wager kulezi zinsuku i-inthanethi. Kulula futhi kulula, futhi kunezinye izinzuzo ezimbalwa futhi. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa amasayithi okubheja afanele noma kunjalo. Azifani zonke, futhi ezinye kufanele zigwenywe ngokuphelele. Ngeshwa, ababheji abaningi benza iphutha lokuvele babhalise endaweni yokuqala abayitholayo. Kunamasayithi ambalwa amabi ngempela kuwebhu, amanye awo okungafanele athenjwe ngezimali zakho.
Kuyingozi ukubhalisa nesayithi ongalazi uma ungazi ukuthi lihloniphekile noma lithembekile. Ukwazi lolu lwazi kufanele kube imfuneko encane. Okufanelekile, kufanele ucabangele amasayithi angcono kakhulu atholakalayo kuphela.
4. Ukubheja Ngenhliziyo Yakho
Elinye lamaphutha amakhulu abadlali abawenzayo wukuthi babheja ngezinhliziyo zabo hhayi ngamakhanda. Esikushoyo ngalokhu ukuthi sonke sineqembu/abadlali, abadlali, amahhashi esiyintandokazi aseduze nezinhliziyo zethu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi okomuntu siqu noma into osuyithande ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, nokho naphezu kwalokhu kuhlobana komuntu siqu asikwazi ukudelela amaqiniso nezibalo lapho senza ukukhetha kwethu, ngoba sithanda iManchester United akusho ukuthi bazoshaya iqembu okungenzeka lisefomini engcono okwamanje. Udinga ukuphendukela kumaqiniso futhi usebenzise idatha ukuze wenze isinqumo esinolwazi mayelana nomphumela womcimbi, kunokubheja ngokuthi ubani ongathanda ukuwina.
Kukhona isikhungo sezibalo esibukhoma esimangalisayo esitholakala kwamanye amabhuku ezemidlalo aphezulu, vakashela isigaba sethu sokubuyekeza ukuze uthole ukuthi yibaphi abanikeza lesi sici.
5. Ukubheja ngezizathu ezingalungile
Uke wahlala phansi ukuze ubukele umdlalo webhola kumabonakude futhi wanquma ukubheja ukuze nje wenze izinto zijabulise kakhulu? Noma ubeke ibheja kumdlali wethenisi ukuze awine umqhudelwano ngoba eyintandokazi yakho? Noma usekele iqembu lebhola lezwe lakho ukuthi liwine umqhudelwano wamazwe ngamazwe ngoba unomuzwa wokushisekela izwe lakho? Uma uphendule ngoyebo kunoma yimuphi wale mibuzo (futhi mhlawumbe uyenzile uma uphendula ngokwethembeka), khona-ke unecala lokwenza elinye lamaphutha okubheja avame kakhulu kuwo wonke.
Kunesizathu esisodwa kuphela esihle sokubheja uma uhlose ukwenza inzuzo yesikhathi eside, futhi yilapho usuhlonze khona ithuba elihle ngempela. Ukubheja ngaphandle kwesizathu noma ukubheja ngokusekelwe emizweni yakho akuzona izizathu ezanele zokubheja. Lolu hlobo lokuziphatha cishe luzokubiza imali ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
6. Ukungaqondi kahle I-T's & C's
Umhlaba wokubheja kwezemidlalo ku-inthanethi uyindawo eminyene, futhi kubabhuki amabhonasi ayindlela ekahle yokuheha abadlali abasha. Kubadlali abafuna ukuqala amanye alawa mabhonasi angakhanga kakhulu, futhi kufanele, nokho-ke umuntu kufanele aqaphe ukuze afunde i-T&C yezinketho zamabhonasi ngokucophelela njengoba izikhathi eziningi lezi ziza nezimfuneko ezithile nezigatshana. Yonke imigomo yebhonasi yezindawo zokubheja izohluka ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi uzijwayeze ngaphambi kokubhalisa.